Now here’s a straight forward question for you: Do you regularly see beautiful women around you? If you answered yes, you’re not alone. Believe it or not, men around you are also seeing the same pretty girls. What you need to do is find these beautiful women and show them a good time. Here’s how.
First of all, you need to throw out all pickup tactics. Old, outdated ways of trying to attract women have been out rightly rejected. Now, if you’re having problems with approaching women, which are new methods to trying to attract women on the scene today. Chances are, you’re a bit late to the game doors and you need to get your game on.
Let’s have a refresh. Your first job is to learn how to properly introduce yourself to the beautiful women around you. Too many men try to do the typical, approach, single girl at a bar and the end result is, they are often rejected. Yes, shyness can be an amazing turn on, but it can also present you as someone who doesn’t know the way to the front door. You see, women aren’t the only ones who are searching for their soul mate. Remember, women will go to the bar and shopping center to shop, have a drink or two and definitely, not to date. They’re also out there during hours of the day to meet interesting men.
Part of your preparation has to do with engaging these women’s attention. This is where your confidence comes in. Believe me, even with all the dating tips you’ve ever heard, it still has a lot to do with your looks, your shoes, your clothes and your cologne. Yes, we’re looking for men, but believe me, hearts aren’t what win us! Yes, this is why, more men have more dates and more wives than their counterparts. It’s simple, men are made for relationships and women are made for dating.
Many people have a feeling about meeting the perfect one. They feel that there are a lot of women who are made for them. Honestly, I don’t agree. I think it is all in our heads. If you think you are one of the lucky ones, just remember one thing. They are also as nervous as you are about meeting that special someone they just have to spend some time getting to know. That’s it. I know many men that fear approaching gorgeous women because they fear rejection. Well let me tell you one thing. They are also going to fear because that’s the only way that you will get to meet them.
Yes, I can see you now getting all freaked out and frustrated. All you had to do to confirm this theory about men is to honestly take notice of yourself. Pay attention to your insecurities and the way you view others. If you find you are hesitant to walk up to the most gorgeous woman in the office because you fear being rejected, look within and realize that it is the rejection that cause you not to get the gorgeous women. Keep in mind that the best looking women in the office still have to deal with the same issues that all other women have. Women are just less self-confident than men and stay in the corner unable to make eye contact.
Whatever the reason that kept you from walking up to these beautiful women, use it as an advantage in getting to know these women. Know that in order for you to be comfortable, no matter what the reason is, it is your job to know your strongest asset and use that in your favor.
Now go, find those women!